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How to Be What Nice, Mature Boys Want  
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Tags: Dating, Choosing a Man, Choosing a Date

Ladies, don't sell yourselves short setteling for immature men who don't treat you with respect. Here is how you can get a nice, mature boy to love.

1.	Have some self-respect. There are so many girls who are basically throwing their true love life away by throwing themselves at guys -- dressing, talking, socially and sexually interacting dirtily in order to get a boyfriend. Act differently and you'll stand out -- in a good way.
2.	Be nice. Greet people you know when you see them. Greet adults and teachers. You'd be surprised about how good you will feel afterwards.
3.	Smile. Boys love to see girls smile. The sense of happiness is key.
4.	Wake up with confidence. Focus on the good things in your life. Wake up with the feeling of success and strive to make another positive day.
5.	Stay on top of your work. Guys like smart girls. Guys like the comfort of having support when in academic doubt.
6.	Love your friends and family. Boys like sweet girls. especially girls who treat their family and friends with respect.
7.	Be yourself. Boys like creativity and honesty. That is all shown when you're being yourself. Don't dumb yourself down to make guys like you.
8.	Stay clean. Smoking, drinking, drug use, stealing, using bad language - those are all turnoffs to sweet guys. Drinking a lot even when at the appropriate age limit still can show insecurity, unawareness, and immaturity.
9.	Love yourself. This doesn't mean be a narcissist. Egotistical girls are far from the hottest thing to guys. But love yourself to the point where you are not afraid to be who you are, and you are proud of your accomplishments.
10.	Avoid stress. Boys freak out during stress. Girl stress is totally different from guys' stress. If you want support from your guy friend, turn your problem into an understandable situation where the boy can relate, guide you, and help you get through it.
11.	Give your best -- you'll get the best. Give the boy all that he deserves; always love him as much as he can love you. Always be there for him. When you get into arguments (which you will)- never try to win him over, bond with him and work it out. No matter how much you disagree, you will feel better, and so will he. He will love you even more for that.
12.	Use your time wisely. If you're in high school, you know that there is always work and activities going on. Use your time for school and get your work done, then after that, you will feel fresh and successful, and then approach your guy friend. You will have a positive achieved smile on and even though he hasn't seen you all day, he will still be relieved that you are now finished and you feel good about yourself. He'll understand. Trust me.
13.	Be a feminist. Be strong in your opinions and values, but also be respectful to the opinions of others. If a guy doesn't respect a polite woman who is not a pushover, then he isn't very nice now, is he?
14.	Learn how to read a situation. Just because a guy is making a sexual move on you, doesn't mean he thinks you're easy. Most often when a guy starts making more serious moves, he is just trying to figure out how far you'll let him go. With respectable guys, all you have to say is no, and they are more than happy to abide by that. But they don't know how far they can -- or how far you want them to -- go, so they test to see. A guy can be more contented with a girl who knows her boundaries than with a girl who just "isn't sure" or "needs more time to think about it". Just tell him that whatever he's going for will come with time, and he'll respect that.

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