| | ONE. Give people more than they expect and do it |
| | cheerfully. |
| | TWO. Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get |
| | older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other. |
| | THREE. Don't believe all you hear, spend all you have or |
| | sleep all you want. |
| | FOUR. When you say, "I love you," mean it. |
| | FIVE. When you say, "I'm sorry," look the person in the |
| | eye. |
| | SIX. Be engaged at least six months before you get |
| | married. |
| | SEVEN. Believe in love at first sight |
| | EIGHT. Never laugh at anyone's dream. People who don't |
| | have dreams don't have much. |
| | NINE. Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt |
| | but it's the only way to live life completely |
| | TEN. In disagreements, fight fairly. No name calling. |
| | ELEVEN. Don't judge people by their relatives. |
| | TWELVE. Talk slowly but think quickly. |
| | THIRTEEN. When someone asks you a question you don't |
| | want to answer, smile and ask, "Why do you want to know?" |
| | FOURTEEN. Remember that great love and great |
| | achievements involve great risk. |
| | FIFTEEN. Say "bless you" when you hear someone sneeze. |
| | SIXTEEN. When you lose, don't lose the lesson. |
| | SEVENTEEN. Remember the three R's: Respect for self; |
| | Respect for others; and responsibility for all your actions. |
| | EIGHTEEN. Don't let a little dispute injure a great |
| | friendship. |
| | NINETEEN. When you realize you've made a mistake, take |
| | immediate steps to correct it. < BR> |
| | TWENTY. Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will |
| | hear it in your voice. |
| | TWENTY-ONE. Spend some time alone. |