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Mistakes Women Make in Bed  
INFORMATIVE 

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Everyone knows that men and women approach sex in very different ways. Because of these differing views on sex, it can be difficult to tell what your partner wants or needs from sex. Here are some of the top mistakes women make in bed.

	Not washing before sex I know that sex is spontaneous, this is more of a general statement. If you haven't showered that day, and things smell a little...fishy...perhaps demanding oral sex is a little ridiculous of you
	Expecting your man to think like a woman Men and women are wired different, so don't expect your man to approach sex in the same way that you do. Communication is vital for a satisfying sexual experience.
	Expecting your man to read your mind When it comes to sex, assume that men don't know what you want and that you have to verbally, or visually, tell him what you want and need.
	Taking things way too seriously Sex is funny. Actually it's hilarious. Somewhere along the line, someone is going to fall off of a bed, hit their head on a lighting fixture, accidentally kick a midget or trip over a goat. It's how you deal with it that really matters.
	Refusing to initiate Women have been taught that they are meant to be passive when it comes to sex, however, taking charge can be a pleasant surpise for your man. It doesn't always have to be the man's responsibility.
	Only having sex in the bedroom Not only does this get boring but it is also very limiting. Use the kitchen table, the couch, the lawn furniture, the car, the tub and shower and anything else you can think of. Mix things up!
	Refusing to let him take control With that said, it's also ok to allow your man to initiate. Letting him call the shots doesn't make you any less assertive.
	Faking orgasms Just. Don't. By faking (IF he believes you) he thinks he's doing everything right. And if he doesn't know its not working, he's not going to change it. Starting a vicious cycle of unfulfilling sex which will eventually be very damaging to his ego
	Staying quiet On the other hand, if you're not making any kind of noise if your man is doing something right, you're not letting him know what you want and it can damage his ego.
	Anything that involves inserting anything into his body that he has not specifically approved before hand It doesn't matter what Cosmo or any other like mag says, some things are simply not pleasant surprises
	Cleaning up after sex Wiping off is one thing. But changing the sheets immediately so you can get the other ones in the washer and then sanitizing everything your naked body might have possibly passed by is not the way to do it
	Refusing to use oils/whipped cream/other messy but fun things because you have 541510630 count Egyptian cotton sheets that were made by hand by the only person alive capable of sewing that pattern They can be washed

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